The Relationship Intensive

A 2-day, in-person graduate course (with an optional extra half-day) with a teacher offered only to Hoffman Process graduates

The Hoffman Relationship Intensive is a two day, in person, graduate course, with an optional extra half day, designed for any two people who want individual one on one support to resolve conflict and come into authentic alignment around a shared vision toward the future. You will work together with a teacher using Hoffman tools to surface and get heard about your conflicts and resentments, find compassion for yourself and the other, and cultivate skills, practices, and vision for moving forward. This course is suitable for a collegiate relationship, siblings, parent and adult child, or a couple moving into a committed relationship, striving to maintain and deepen an existing relationship, or looking to find a way to separate with love and dignity. You have the option of bringing the teacher to your location, traveling to the teacher, or meeting at an agreed upon venue. Following the Intensive, you will each have a follow up coaching call with the option to arrange ongoing coaching together.

Why do the Hoffman Relationship Intensive:

  • Deepen your understanding of yourself and your partner
  • Create greater intimacy
  • Prepare for marriage
  • Face a challenge
  • Decide whether you have a future together
  • Resolve differences so you can effectively co-parent
  • Smooth the way for separation and the creation of a new, healthier relationship
  • Identify patterns that separate you from yourself and from each other
  • Uncover what keeps you from relating with each other more truly and deeply
  • Shift your relationship in just a few days

Fee includes:

  • Individual pre-work to help you focus on your needs
  • In-person sessions over 2-3 days
  • 2 post-Intensive phone coaching sessions (1 per participant)
What to Expect

Day 1: Each person has a 90-120 minute individual session with the teacher. You and your partner will be given an assignment, which takes 1-2 hours to complete that afternoon and evening. The assignment involves bashing, dialoguing, and recycling new patterns you have identified.

Day 2: Begins at 9:00 am with a 3-4 hour session. After a lunch break, there is an afternoon session, which is variable in length. It may end as early as 5:00 pm or extend to 6:00 pm or later depending on your needs as a couple.

Day 3 (optional): Begins at 9:00 am for a 2-3 hour session during which you will reflect and extend learning from the previous two days and look to the future. This option is highly recommended for all couples who are facing serious challenges in their relationship.

Post-Intensive Coaching Sessions: Two 45-minute sessions (one per participant) are included. These will be scheduled at the end of the Intensive, generally to take place within one month after completion of the Intensive.

Location: The Hoffman Relationship Intensive occurs in person either at the location of the teacher or at a location near your home. If the teacher needs to travel, there is an additional fee of $500 per travel day, plus travel, meal, and accommodation costs for the teacher.

Tuition: The basic tuition for day 1 & 2 of the Relationship Intensive is $2,950. If the sessions extend beyond a total of 12 hours on Day 1 & 2, there is an additional charge of $250 per hour. These fees are payable by check or credit card at the time of the Relationship Intensive sessions. A $500 non-refundable, non-transferable deposit is due when you schedule, and the balance of $2,450 is due ten days prior to the start of the Relationship Intensive.

To Register for The Hoffman Relationship Intensive: 
If you know which Hoffman coach they would like to work with, you may contact them directly. If you would like guidance in selecting a coach for the Hoffman Relationship Intensive, or if you have any questions about the Intensive, please email: or call the Enrollment department at 800-506-5253.

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