The Relationship Intensive

A 2-day, in-person graduate course (with an optional extra half-day) with a teacher; offered only to Hoffman Process graduates

The Hoffman Relationship Intensive is a two day, in-person graduate program and can include an optional extra half day. It is designed for any two Process graduates who want individual, one-on-one support to resolve conflict and come into authentic alignment around a shared vision toward the future. Working with a coach, you will use Hoffman tools to identify any conflicts and resentments, be heard about them, find compassion for yourself and the other, and cultivate skills, practices, and a vision for moving forward.

This program is suitable for a collegiate relationship; siblings; parent and adult child; or a couple moving into a committed relationship, striving to maintain and deepen an existing relationship, or looking to find a way to separate with love and dignity. You have the option of bringing the coach to your location, traveling to the coach, or meeting at an agreed-upon venue. Following the Intensive, you will each have a follow-up coaching call, with the option to arrange ongoing coaching together.

Why take the Hoffman Relationship Intensive?

  • Deepen your understanding of yourself and your partner
  • Create greater intimacy
  • Prepare for marriage
  • Face a challenge
  • Decide whether you have a future together
  • Resolve differences so you can effectively co-parent
  • Smooth the way for separation and the creation of a new, healthier relationship
  • Identify patterns that separate you from yourself and from each other
  • Uncover what keeps you from relating with each other more truly and deeply
  • Shift your relationship in just a few days

Fee includes

  • Individual pre-work to help you focus on your needs
  • In-person sessions over 2–3 days
  • 2 post-Intensive phone coaching sessions (1 per participant)

What to Expect

Your Relationship Intensive is designed as a focused experience with a total of 15 hours of dedicated support with your Hoffman Teacher.

Before the Intensive (90 minutes total)
We begin with a pre-intensive coaching session. This includes:

  • Clarifying your goals and intentions
  • Reviewing logistics and schedule
  • Aligning expectations for the experience
  • Initial coaching (as a couple or individually)

During the 2-Day Intensive (12 hours total)
This is the core of the experience, providing deep, structured support:

  • Day 1: 4 hours of guided work
  • Day 2: 7 hours of guided work
  • Includes: 1-hour paid lunch break

Sessions are tailored in real time to your needs, balancing practical tools, guided conversations, and in-the-moment coaching.

After the Intensive (90 minutes total)
We close with a post-intensive session to:

  • Integrate what you’ve learned
  • Reinforce key insights and tools
  • Support next steps moving forward
  • Provide continued coaching (together or individually)

Optional Add-Ons
For clients who want additional depth or time:

  • Extend Day 1 or Day 2 at an hourly add-on rate
  • Add a third day of intensive work at an hourly add-on rate
  • Continue with additional coaching sessions (billed separately at standard coaching rates)

Tuition: The basic tuition for days 1 & 2 of the Relationship Intensive is $4,200 USD. If the sessions extend beyond a total of 12 hours on days 1 & 2, there is an additional charge of $300 USD per hour. These fees are payable to the Hoffman Institute by check or credit card at the time of the Relationship Intensive sessions. A $500 USD non-refundable, non-transferable deposit is due when you schedule, and the balance of $3,700 USD is due 15 days prior to the start of the Relationship Intensive.

Note: Graduates are also responsible for paying any applicable teacher costs including flight, ground, lodging, meals at cost, and travel time.

To Register for the Hoffman Relationship Intensive

If you know which Hoffman coach you would like to work with, you may contact them directly. If you would like guidance in selecting a coach for the Hoffman Relationship Intensive, or if you have any questions about the Intensive, please email enrollment@hoffmaninstitute.org or call the enrollment department at 800-506-5253.

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